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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women make more hours to make the same salaries as men. With same skill set. This is already proved to be true in the US and confirmed by multiple research. Thus, i[b]f she’s earning less plus also has to pull off all the household work she ends up doing 2 work shifts vs husband[/b] . Until men and women are absolutely equalized on corporate ladder there may be no equality in marriage. Not sure how it’s even hard to understand! [/quote] Precisely. The people who don't understand are SAHMs who have no idea how hard it is to work AND be the primary parent. They have a cushy existence compared to most WOHMs.[/quote] I’m a single dad who works and is the primary parent and the alleged difficulty of this is vastly exaggerated.[/quote] Because you probably suck as a dad compared to what single/working moms are doing. Sorry. Signed, SAHM with a cushy existence [/quote] I dated single dads with 2-3 kids who are actual, involved parents. They literally never have time for themselves or serious dating ! [/quote] Right. They were better dads than the PP who thinks that moms are vastly exaggerating how hard it is to work full-time and be the primary parent. [/quote] Or maybe he's just a harder worker and not as used to complaining. Or maybe he doesn't see parenting as a hassle. Or maybe he's more efficient at accomplishing what needs to be done at work and home. Or maybe he doesn't spend a lot of time shopping for leggings and watching Tik Tok dances while "working" at his cushy middle management fed job.[/quote] Hmm, no, I think it's that he isn't as good of a dad as women who report their experience with the well-documented phenomenon of the difficulties of being a primary parent while working full-time. [/quote] “Well documented” = women who complained a lot on DCUM lol.[/quote] Google is free, you know. https://fortune.com/2021/06/25/women-men-unpaid-child-care-pandemic-gender-equality-workforce/ https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/10/01/women-more-than-men-adjust-their-careers-for-family-life/ https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/women-do-extra-hour-a-day-of-chores-childcare-than-men-20221007-p5bnzv.html https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/wellbeing/articles/menenjoyfivehoursmoreleisuretimeperweekthanwomen/2018-01-09 Seriously I don’t know what kind of mental gymnastics people are doing that leads them to believe that there is not an overall gender imbalance in domestic labor in dual-income households. [/quote] The internet is full of lies, you know. Including dishonest, politically motivated “studies”.[/quote] No, sorry. Nice try though.[/quote] Hilarious that you think that stamping your foot and yelling “it is, too!” is a compelling response.[/quote]
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