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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I sent OW a letter saying I felt bad for her and wanted her to understand the truth to be able to make an informed decision about her future. [/quote]

How did that go?[/quote]

She was genuinely shocked that everything DH said to her was a lie, even thought she KNEW he was married with kids so essentially she knew he was a liar, but I guess she just didn't think that was applicable to her. The dead bedroom was VERY much a lie. He "worked late" once a week and couldn't respond to her texts then when in reality we have a weekly babysitter for date nights that he largely plans for us. All the "trips he took the kids on because I was always overwhelmed and he was trying to give me a break" were in fact very much planned family vacations with built in childcare for date nights. The fact that "we are living together for the kids because he would feel bad seeing me have to find a small apartment" when I am the breadwinner and would keep the house and HIS butt would be out in the cold. [/quote]

Yeah this is not very exciting stuff sorry OP. It’s sad that the two of you are cat fighting over the scraps of this man who clearly lies to both of you.[/quote]

PP here. I certainly wasn't fighting over him. If OW was going to move here and be with him, she was going to be giving up her job, family, and moving across the country. I felt that she should at least understand that he had been also lying to her the entire time before uprooting her life for a smokescreen relationship. I genuinely felt bad for her too in this situations, we were both the victims in many ways.[/quote]

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