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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I never said I supported or condoned it. I told her my concerns which certainly strained the friendship but unlike you I can recognize that there is more to a person than their worst decisions. She has some issues. As it seems you do. Just bc your spouse cheated on you doesn’t make YOU a good person either. Sounds like you use it as cover for some serious personality deficits actually. Here’s hoping you yourself learn some empathy someday because it sounds like you only care about yourself. Pot, kettle.
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DP.  I also read your first post and wondered how you could maintain the friendship.  What your friend did is such a poor reflection of her character that there is no way that does not evidence itself in other areas of her life. You listening to your friend discuss this "relationship" made you complicit  by providing some kind of inferred validation or approval.  If you really expressed to your friend that you had no tolerance for it, she would not have kept discussing it with you.  And before you deflect, I have been married for 30 years and neither of us has cheated.[/quote]

I think you can listen to someone and disagree with them and counsel them against what they are doing and still be their friend. That doesn’t make you complicit or an accomplice. Have you never stayed friends with someone you disagreed with? [b]You can agree to disagree[/b].[/quote]

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