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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I confronted her, she kept on lying about it. [/quote]

I also confronted.  She got angry about him ratting her out and betraying all of their secrets to me.  She also was terrified I was going to tell her spouse.

It was beneficial for me.  I had already confronted and dealt with my spouse and I don’t let people bully me without confronting them.

Healing really didn’t begin until I got to say my piece to the people that wronged me.  It was akin to taking my power back.

They both knew their families/spouses/kids would suffer trauma by what they were doing but it was just some harmless fun and an es are for them.  “It didn’t mean anything”.  They failed to calculate how wrong that was.[/quote]

Oh and nobody knows but the 4 people (spouses and cheaters) not the kids.  She had no employer and why would his work ever need to know?

Oh and her ho girlfriends she glamorized it too and also cheat on their husbands.[/quote]

Oh so silly. Once you confront you have no control over who she tells, his work or whoever. You can’t control her response. Why escalate. Your DH is the o my one who matters.[/quote]

You realize there was no control and she already was telling other people. And then there is the inherent risk of other people seeing the spouse and OW together and the kids finding out that way.  That’s a much greater risk.  Better to end the whole thing.[/quote]

Really? And you think this is the OW’s responsibility and not YOUR HUSBAND’S?[/quote]

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