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He was asked to interview for a position in his company that, according to him, is a 6 month trial with no pay raise, but it puts him in front of people like the CEO, and gives him management experience. It is VERY demanding, will have zero flexibility on scheduling, and will require travel. In his words, it could either make or break his career - if he does well, it could lead to a permanent position with a very significant pay raise, or if he does poorly, he will basically be stuck in his current role permanently.

I was blunt and told him that his time management sucks, he is lazy[/quote]

There is a very obvious contradiction here. He would not even be considered for such a position if his time management sucks and he is lazy.

This just sounds like the standard DW whine that DH is not doing everything she wants exactly as she wants it done and (stamps foot) this means he is a good-for-nothing man-baby. Whatever. Go ahead and blow up your family because there are some dirty dishes on the counter.  :roll: [/quote]

Oh stop. We literally have zero toilet paper and have had to shower after pooping and I am using my kids’ toothpaste because H didn’t follow through on restocking when he volunteered for the task. Most days he either sleeps in until 10am, or locks himself in the bedroom in the evening to nap until 9pm. This is WAY beyond a few dishes left on the counter. [/quote]

Are you an adult? Why not restock things yourself? You sound like a child. You would rather throw a tantrum than buy some toilet paper and toothpaste. [/quote]

Whoosh. I cannot believe how clueless / obtuse some of you are. [/quote]

DP.  This is how I read it as well.  She doesn’t want to buy toilet paper because it isn’t her “job.”

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I find these comments so insane. I have told my DH several times saying he is going to do something and then not doing it is WORSE than just straight up admitting he won’t do it. Because then you either have to monitor them or it ends up being an emergency and you missed a deadline or ran out. Being out of TP because you believed your husband would take care of it is not that big of a deal once but if it’s happening all the time for various tasks it’s chaos.[/quote]

Exactly. It’s death by a thousand cuts.[/quote]

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