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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Actually I have a pretty well informed view of what single life is like. Here’s what it will be: less money, less time, loss of friends, being treated as less-than by just about everybody, constant unending stress and anxiety about being the breadwinner and only source of everything, no one to help you if you’re tired or sick, inability to travel. Inability to take on extra work, possible need to change career paths to free up more time for kids, an endless parade of freaks and losers with flaws at least as large as her DH’s but people who have zero committment to her children, while her apparently awesome high earning handsome funny non abusive non alcoholic non addicted highly educated service-oriented DH takes up with someone new and possibly goes on to have more kids, shortchanging her own, and providing a stable secure life for some other woman while OP watches from her office window, where she now spends every minute that she isn’t with her kids. It sucks, and is not necessarily better than dealing with the flawed human she married.[/quote]

I am a divorced 45-year-old woman with kids. What are you describe here is just not true. Stop imagining what divorce is  like for people. [/quote]

I don't think PP is saying all divorces are like this. Just if you get divorced from an otherwise great catch. Maybe you married and divorced a loser.[/quote]

My ex is an attorney. He is not a loser. (But is a jerk). Regardless, almost nothing you describe is my reality. [/quote]

I'm a NP and what she described is basically my reality.[/quote]

It is not mine. Your reality is not universal. She is a doctor. Her reality would not look like this. [/quote]

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