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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry. Sending you a huge hug. My mom left my dad after 40 years of marriage due to him having multiple affairs. She simply could no longer live with a liar. If your dh truly loves the kids, he wouldn't continue  hurting you (and them) by cheating behind your back. I think we often are clinging to the person we want them to be rather than the person they really are. And that really only benefits them, not us.[/quote]

Oh please.  You can love your kids and still cheat on your spouse.  Spare us your drivel. [/quote]

Not really, no. If you love your kids, you want the best for them. Screwing around on their mother is not in their best interest. Ever.

If you love your kids, you contain your own selfish desires and put their needs first.[/quote]

+1, and I'll note that this is what we expect of the betrayed spouse. You're never supposed to be anything less than cordial to your spouse, never supposed to say anything bad about him to the kids, and of course you aren't supposed to tell them about the transgression, even when not doing so makes you look like the bad guy. I have never been in that situation but it seems hard AF. If everybody expects somebody to do that for their kids, I don't see why we can't expect people to not hurt their spouses for the sake of the kids. [/quote]

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