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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Married people do the same with in laws. Part of being amicable is we don’t fight over holidays or we do them together specifically to not put it on the kids. We do our together and only expect Xmas eve dinner and breakfast … they do dinners with in laws/whoever they are dating family… sometimes dinner with us too. But we can change it if needed. It’s flexible, once we just did something the Saturday after Xmas. (Because of travel) Being amicable spreads to many facets of life.[/quote] You think you have the perfect divorce. Meantime, there are plenty of posters on DCUM - many on this thread - who are adult children of divorce who are sharing their experiences that even when the adults thinks it's all great, the kids often disagree but don't feel comfortable saying that. And many say that it's worse as adults. Your narrative doesn't leave any space for your kid to have different feelings.[/quote]
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