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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi there! I left my last job on less than positive terms and was wondering if you see any lessons to take from the experience or advice for emotionally moving forward? Also if you see any lingering ill will towards me or gossip about me (you can be honest). Without giving away too much because I want to remain anonymous, I recognize with hindsight that I could've done things differently (and I say this with remorse) but the situation in question was unfair, difficult and at the time truly seemed outside of my control. Thanks![/quote] Hello. I hear “Odd Man Out”, “Timing”, and I had an image of a group of people sitting at a table and you were illuminated. It makes me feel that you had a lot of potential and instead of using that potential, you may have been more of a pawn. There is a feeling of you being used as opposed to being truly brought into the fold. Your reaction came from a place of impulsivity versus a thought out plan to make change. This is most likely because it triggered something in your subconscious and you reacted as a form of defense without much thought. I just heard “miscommunication” and I feel that both parties may have some regrets, but that both will use it as a chance to learn moving forward. However, you will be the beneficiary of most of that growth. The most important thing for you is to learn from what happened and to dig in and understand why it happened so that you do not allow it to happen again. I am not feeling any ill will towards you as it feels like the are operating on a hive level instead of as individuals. I believe this happening came as a way to help you to firm up your inner foundation so that the support you need is found internally. You must learn all facts about what you deem to be unfair before making any moves. Learning to control any impulsivity you have is something to work on going forward. The cards that represent your current energy are the Knight of Cups and the 9 of Wands. While you may have regrets about the situation, you are allowing yourself to try and understand on a deeper level. That is half the battle right there. You have made it through a trying time and you are still standing and will eventually feel that you have come out on top. I feel like this is a gift that you are giving to yourself because there is positive movement forward for you and you are not going to be likely to have this happen again. The cards that represent the energy of the old job is The Sun in reverse and the 2 of Pentacles. It was a good job that allowed you to be comfortable in many ways, but with The Sun in reverse, it may not have been the best fit, even if this did not happen. I feel in the long run you may have seen that you benefited them more than they benefited you and you may have found yourself having to change course anyway. The cards that represent what you need to know are the 4 of Pentacles and the Tower in reverse. This says to me that you have already dealt with the inevitable instead of dealing with it in the future. Right now you need to focus on sorting yourself out and make sure that you are not spending unnecessarily at this time. Use this as an opportunity to take a rest. The cards that represent what you need to work on are the 7 of Swords and the 6 of Cups. You need to work on not being deceptive with yourself and making excuses for why things are the way they are. Allow the positive aspects of your old job to carry you forward and take the aspects that were bad and make it so you don’t allow them to happen again. You need to be honest with yourself and others when you are feeling a certain way. If you cannot pinpoint what that is, then take a step back, think about it, then make your approach. The cards that represent the outcome should you do the work is the Ace of Cups and the 6 of Pentacles. If you do this work, you will find yourself in a new job, or ever career, that is emotionally fulfilling and rewarding. It is a job that will not only benefit the company, but also you and it will be far more symbiotic than anything you have had up until this point. However, you must remember, in order for this to happen, you need to know your worth the moment you walk in the door. Take this time to dive in. [/quote] Thank you for your reading. This resonates overall and you made sense of (what to me feels like) a convoluted situation with minimal context. You truly have a gift.[/quote]
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