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It must be really scary to realize that there are many non-cheaters on here advocating to not use your children as a dumping ground for your adult issues.[/quote]

I don’t believe there are many of you.  I think it’s just a handful of posters at most that are probably cheaters or are just raised in such a dysfunctional environment that they feel strongly about protecting abusers.

Literally everyone I know believes that children should be told about the reason for divorce.  It IS their business, as children of divorce and children of cheaters have lifelong issues as a result.  This has been well documented over decades of research.  Use the google if you aren’t aware of this.

The saddest part of this whole argument is that some of you clearly can’t conceive that people are capable of communicating a message to children in an age appropriate way, without anger or agenda.  We told my children in the office of his psychologist, at his recommendation, with an age appropriate statement we worked on ahead of time.

The fact that you can’t imagine a message being conveyed without alterior motives or anger says more about YOU than anything else.  It’s sad if you haven’t seen enough examples of this in your life.

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