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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok. Another perspective. Feel free to hate.

I am in my early/mid 50s. Went to an Ivy. Very successful. Am in good shape and good looking for my age. I am dating a 30 year old who has two kids, and is beautiful and was a physics major in college.

She isn’t dating me for money per se - she is dating me because I am a member of the upper class of this country.  I’m smarter and more worldly than the guys she could date her age. I ski instead of snowboard and I have an important job.  Unlike the poster above who claimed that the older men she would date exaggerative their money, I am not exaggerating.

Why should I feel compelled to date a 50 year old? I wasn’t looking for a 30 year old, it just happened.  She’s beautiful and into me and I like being around her. [/quote]

A 30yo single mother of two isn't the prize you think she is and she's absolutely with you for the money. She's dating you because men her age wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole.  [/quote]

She is dating you in hopes of giving her kids a better future.  To be 30 with 2 kids and divorced is young.  I don’t imagine she had much a career going on to have gotten such an early start with marriage and motherhood.  You are her children’s college saving plan and their “in” at a good internship.  [/quote]

It’s a gamble on both ends. May you be a man who treats her and her children with respect. [/quote]

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