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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If it was just a house for which you have money, I would say go for it as house is an investment. However, if she wants that then she has to compromise on wedding. Have a simple wedding. She is 30 and working, not a 20 year old with no financial sense. You two should meet a financial counselor to get a reality check. As far as having kids right after wedding is never a great idea, enjoy an year or two as a couple before taking on responsibility of a child. If you two can afford being one income, its fine but to go on one income, y’all need to be more prudent. This doesn’t have to be your forever home, if you have 2 kids, you can move to a bigger house in 5-6 years when kids start KG.

It seems she is comparing things with other couples and wants to do as good or better or trying to recreate her childhood. Its immature for a 30 year old woman. You on the other side are saving 90% of your income, this doesn’t seem like a great match but what were you talking about this whole year?
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Buying a starter home first with the plan of upgrading in 5-6 years when you could afford the forever home now is a really poor investment decision because you lost tens of thousands of dollars in transaction costs alone.  Not to mention that mortgage interest rates are still crazy low right now and could be substantially higher in 5-6 years.[/quote]

Maybe this is why the GF changed her mind on how much house to buy.  The OP has $2m in savings.  The house seems like a good investment right now.  [/quote]

yeah, she's showing her true colors - she's a gold digger putting claims on his savings to support her lifestyle.  sure OP may not be responding anymore but IMO, he did the right think to confront his ex-GF and dodged a serious bullet with this one.[/quote]

OP is avoiding the thread because he doesn’t want to answer questions that don’t fit his narrative. [/quote]

They broke up.  He got his ring back.  What more is there to discuss?[/quote]

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