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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes we have. We said if either one of us are unhappy in the marriage we'll talk to each other first and figure out how to work through it.[/quote]

My husband told me when we first got married that you always stay married. Even if somehow you love another person more than your spouse, you value marriage and you stay in marriage and work on it no matter what. We were very much in love and communicated well. He moved out 2 months ago and is living with his affair partner now. What I think is so remarkable is the way that he lies to her. And she thinks that he always tells the truth. Because for a while he broke up with her and we talked about a lot of things. Trust me, she does not know all of the things we talked about. She wouldn't be with him. They're both living in denial, and so are you and your husband.[/quote]

This is so interesting and I wish you would start your own thread so I can talk to you. I’m not OP. Why do you think they are still together given everything he told you and if it is not too private, what we’re those conversations about that gave you such equanimity?[/quote]

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