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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d probably not tell her when we were going next year. But that’s just me. [/quote] Then you are passive aggressive and cruel. This is a family member who loves you and wants to spend time with you and you’re too weak and unloving to find words to tell them that their behavior makes you uncomfortable? [/quote] She’s cruel because she doesn’t want to spend all her vacation waiting hand and foot on someone?[/quote] It sounds like cousin sees herself as a guest rather than equal partners in the joint family vacation. I don’t expect guests to do things in my own house or my parents’ house!!! If three of us are renting a beach house together that is different. OP, you are expecting cousin to read your mind that you expect this to be a different dynamic than what she is used to as a guest of your family in the past. If you expect it to be different, SAY SO. Stop blaming her for not mind reading. [/quote]
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