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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is wrong to ask a woman to give up her financial security. Do you get that, OP?

If you make her sign a prenup, you need to agree to make up for all lost wages and salary increases and retirement benefits she gave up while being a SAHM. You also need to provide several years of alimony until she gets back on her feet. Did your prenup include these points? Or was it all about your assets and your future?

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I don’t think OP is asking to find a woman who will “give up financial security” at all. He doesn’t want to marry someone who sees this arrangement as a sacrifice or concession. 
OP is seeking a woman who WANTS to take on this role in marriage and who wants to marry a man who will be the sole provider while she raises kids and manages the house. 
I honestly don’t think a marriage like this would work in 2020 unless BOTH parties agreed that these were the roles they wanted!
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But who, among the types of women he seemingly wants, would agree to this arrangement knowing that if they divorce, she will be left in a very bad position?      If OP didn’t believe in divorce, that would be one thing, but he clearly is ok with it, as evidenced by his prenup demand.  [/quote]

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