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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you need to look in certain places. I don’t see the hate you’re getting.

I met my husband at 35. He had some family money and a lucrative business. I signed a prenup. I’m a nurse and took 5 years off to raise our two boys. I managed all of the childcare and household stuff. My husband is super involved in our kids lives. I have everything I want. You can find it. Don’t give up hope. [/quote]

Pretty sure OP is not interested in someone who wants to go back to work in 5 years. If she goes back to work, household chores and school pickups may fall on him. [/quote]

OP here. I said I’m happy to have a wife who wants to go back to work when the kids are older. [/quote]

Look, OP, there’s nothing wrong with wanting the life you want but no woman with an ounce of self-preservation will go for what you are offering unless she is completely desperate.  If you want a SAHM but want to cut her out in the event of a divorce, you need to write into the prenup that she will be paid for the years of wages and career potential she lost raising your kids and taking care of your home.  Depending on she was doing before and how long she stays at home, it may be cheaper for you to resign yourself to a 50/50 split.  [/quote]

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