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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. Apologizing is not for OP's kid it's recognizing social behavior and even though her kid may not understand OP certainly understands that her kid pushing , growling and spitting on another child is upsetting to the other child.

2. OP claims to apologize some of the time when she can. [b]Please not that this is a recent claim by her. [/b]If you ead the thread in it's entirety she made no such claim in fact she was almost beligerent in her belife that those behaviors were no big deal.

3. OP is a manipulator 
- Twists words to benefit her 
- says ( types) one thing then denies it or claims she meant something different 
- attempts to use guilt to get your support and if you don't cosign everything she believes she lashes out and becomes nasty at the same time if you appear to agree with her she turns up her charm and plays into her own feelings of being a victim so very trusting people ( readers) feel sorry for her. 
-diminishes everyone else's difficulties [/quote]

I said this on the first page. And if I thought they were no big deal, obviously we would not be in therapy 6 days a week.

As for being manipulative, I think a lot of the responders just projected their fears, that parents of autistic kids think their children should be able to hurt babies, and RAN with it. I never said that, you weren't even responging to me - when asked numerous times, nobody could actually find anywhere where I had said that - and so no, I was not manipulating, you were misinterpreting and then being annoyed that you sounded like an intolerant jerk. As for "claiming one thing"- its an insanely complicated situation and it is HARD to explain to people who do not live it.

And I am not a victim. I love my son. In no way do I "diminish others difficulties" - in my work and in life, I work with disadvantageous populations. It is not a difficulty for your child to be subjected to children with disabilities. [/quote]

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