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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sure your mind resists seeing is that way but if your husband has to pay child support and spend time with the other child, then your children most certainly ARE in competition for time and money as finite resources. They are getting less than they could have, without a real benefit of a sibling. Whatever goes to the other child is taken away from them. That's fact, not spin.

As for the kids being loved and cared for, you can make that same argument for the baby of a single mother. He'd still be loved and cared for, even if the father is absent or almost absent. [/quote]

I am the child of an acrimonious divorce. It has made me believe that the primary thing that hurts kids is their parents treating each other badly. I have a great relationship with my dad who didn't live in my house growing up. But my relationship with both of them has been damaged by how they've treated each other over the years and how they put me in the middle.

That informs my position of course. But I'm pretty committed to trying to be that person if a situation like this (god forbid) arises. [/quote]

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