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[quote=Anonymous]I always write a check. That way I know that they have cashed it, and that my gift is not lost or stolen. This happened after the time that I sent an expensive gift from registry that was directly shipped to the couple and they never acknowledged it. The tracking info showed that someone from the apartment building signed for it - but I never knew if the couple got it. After a year the couple divorced so it seemed very tacky to ask if they got the gift. Writing a gift check also means that they know who gave it to them because the name and address is on it. I prefer cash to gift card because they can decide how they want to spend it. Truth is that people do not care about "stuff" any more. And if they rather spend my gift money buying bathmats and toilet brush - so be it! [/quote]
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