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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your original post about your JUDGMENTAL daughters who stop talking to people when they find out they are sexually active:

"While I don't like it, they are VERY judgmental of girls who have sex. My 15 year old has stopped talking to friends when she finds out they are sexually active"[/quote]

Thank you, that PP was talking out of both sides of her mouth.

FWIW- my daughter (14) distances her self from the "boy crazy" clique.  The primary reason is that she finds them to be annoying, obnoxious, and she doesn't have much in common with them.  Trust me- I'm happy she's not in that group.  But its also important for her to choose and develop friendships based on reasons beyond whether or not someone is sexually active.  My son (16) was friends with several boys who now drink, dip, and smoke weed.  According to him, that's almost all these guys talk about.  My son has a couple classes with them, they're on the football team together, so he talks to them- he doesn't ostracize them but he really doesn't consider them to be friends either.  When they show up at school drunk or high, it makes him sad and thinks they're making really bad choices.

So I think it is possible for your kids to distance themselves from kids who are making bad choices.  Hell, that's something we as parents should encourage them to do.  But back to that PP- I don't think we should encourage our kids to be "VERY judgmental" about people who make bad choices.  Everyone makes mistakes and bad choices.  Except that PP and her daughters apparently.  [/quote]

Hmmm...My girls do exactly as your son does, but somehow my situation is worse? Whatever. The know it alls of DCUM have spoken and that's that.[/quote]

No, your girls don't -- at least not according to you, if you're the "VERY judgmental" PP. Your girls think that girls who have sex are bad. PP's sons think that boys who drink, dip, and smoke weed are boring and unwise. Do you perceive the difference?[/quote]

Wow...you're thick. Even when I write what I mean, you insist it's wrong. How very wise of you to know my thoughts better than me. I made a blanket statement. I then provided clarification. I think folks here understand what I mean. Why you want to remain pissed is puzzling, but it's your problem.

BTW, NOWHERE do I state that my girls think sexually active girls are bad. Feel free to point out where I said this.[/quote]

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