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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have followed this entire thread, and I really don't see a trend of people saying you shouldn't bring your son into the ladies' locker room if your if pool's rules say 5 years old and under can be there.  Some people seem to think that 5 is too old, but the majority seem to be of the opinion that you follow your pool's rules.

The only issue I see is people who are members of pools with a rule setting 5 years old as the cut off who want to bring their sons into the ladies' locker room when the boy is older than 5.

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The problem is many 5-6-7 year olds still need help and supervision.  Just as the flip, the woman above mentioning the teenagers needing supervision.  Perhaps if those parents of the teenagers were more attentive during the earlier years, then their kids would know how to act in public.  I would be mortified if my teenager acted that way and they would not be going to the pool.  My 5 year old cannot get a wet suit off himself.  I can't imagine he will in another year.  [/quote]

But that is YOUR family's problem in a year, not anyone else's problem.  The rules are the rules - and if your kid can't get out of a suit himself at a time when he is above the posted age, then you have to find an alternate solution.  Baffling why moms are on here justifying their breaking of COMMUNITY rules which are to apply to everyone because of this or that reason and then blaming the parents who are annoyed they are breaking the rules.  Oh and to the mom above who says no one will say something to you if you break this rule... I WILL AND HAVE.  After swim practice when there are 60 girls in the locker room and I see a third grader coming in with mom, I said something 2x before it stopped.  The second time I had to say something about 10 mothers said, "Yeah!" and "We feel the same way."  and "He just doesn't belong in here."  I'm not a prude.  My kid isn't insecure.  So don't go turning this around.  [/quote]

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