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[quote=Anonymous]The damage that OP worries about is not going to be done when the kids will be in college and find out about your divorce. The damage is done now. Your kids growing in the home where is no love. And if you think that kids don't understand it, you are a total full. Children, even younger than yours, do see and do feel and do reflect on the parents feeling. They do see that there are no passion, affection, love between parents, no matter how hard you are trying to pretend (anyway, you cannot fake it on the daily basis for 15 years or so). The damage that you doing for children is that they learn the pattern of the relationships between man and woman from mom and dad. If you have daughters, they will have difficulties in future to identify a man they love, to fall in love, because growing up observing loveless relationship will mess up their mind. If you have a son, you will establish a pattern how to treat a woman, and he will fail as an adult if he will be treating a woman like you are treating your wife now. If you are truly worry about your kids, get divorce now. Yes, it is traumatic for them, but in the long term, it is less trauma than to grow up in the family without love. It is better for kids, if you separate, but remain in good, loving relations rather than stay together hating each other. You have to decide now,not when kids will be going to college, if you really love this woman and want to work on your relations, your love, or you don't and move forward NOW.[/quote]

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