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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]19:01 here again.

At this point, the ball is in his court. If he was serious enough about you to have been genuinely hurt, then he should willing to demonstrate some sense of commitment to you, as you have done for him.

If he continues waffling on the issue of exclusivity, after you put yourself out there like that, then I'd move on. Either he is playing you, or he has a passive aggressive streak. Either way, bad news. [/quote]

+1.  Give it a few weeks and if he is still so hurt he can't "be exclusive" but willing to be a bed partner or worse yet starts actively pursuing other women while stringing you along then I don't think he is the one for a LTR and it's better you found out now.  Also by "not being exclusive" right now, does that mean you are free to take up with guy #2  again and he is free to sleep with the next women he goes out on a date with?

Personally, I would clarify what "not exclusive" means and agree that if either of you starts sleeping with another person you need to be up front so there is no further miscommunication.  I'm assuming while you are "not being exclusive" you aren't going back to guy 2 and aren't actively pursuing dates and I'm assuming by "not being exclusive" he is trying to figure out if he wants to commit as opposed to actively pursuing other options but  then again assumptions are what got everyone is this pickle to begin with.[/quote]

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