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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When my brother (who I always considered to be my best friend) told me he has never liked me and that he would never consider me to be a friend. After a full day of similar statements, I found a way to get my family away from him in the remote foreign location in which we were visiting him and cut off our relationship.[/quote] I don't understand how you two could feel so differently about your relationship. Was he on drugs or was there something mentally wrong with him?[/quote] Yes, and yes. This followed an overdose in which our lives were put at risk (he was driving us and had a seizure right when we got out of the car) and a conversation in which he denied using drugs. [b]But this comment was the final straw.[/b][/quote] It was the drugs talking. Maybe reconsider giving the relationship another chance if or when he gets clean.[/quote] You are not wrong. But we have a 25 year history of this pattern, and at least for now, I have determined I will be healthier without it. [/quote] Fair enough. But blame him as a person and the unhealthy relationship, not the one-off comment he made that really isn't that awful of an insult when you consider what siblings often say to each other. I said something similar to my sister when we were teens and I'd hate it if she held it against me today. She also threw a shoe at my head, so I say we are even.[/quote]
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