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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, you indeed referenced where Shaquanda was from, not where she is headed. Yes, I would rather have my AA son date Shaquanda from the hood but who is getting good grades, sings at church and runs track in hopes of getting a scholarship for college than precious Snowflake who has no idea of what it is like to be AA in this country and doesn't understand why a white person doesn't have a pass to use the n word...and doesn't care. "From the hood" means nothing since most AAs in the US somehow worked their way up from slavery. Since my grandparents were share-croppers who put my dad through law school. Since my in-laws are a mix of have and have less but who share the common goal of trying to do better for the next generation.[/quote] Do you just refuse to read posts? The whole point is that Shaquanda would be dating your soon being uneducated with nothing "going on" and would rely on your son for her suppport, etc. SO of course she can change in the future but if her intent is to live off your son then its just GREAT to know that you would rather have someone leeching off your son (potentially) than someone who is already sufficient. Thanks for proving that SKIN COLOR matter most to you.[/quote] I did read. And you said Shaquanda from the hood. Where she is from is not relevant to me. You seem to think that I should infer, from your reference to her name and current living situation, where she will be in the future, where her aspirations lie and what type of partner she will be for my son. Shaquanda from the hood with goals, yes, a preference. Shaquanda, Becky. Ling, Pocahontas or Maria from anywhere with no real goals, a sense of entitlement, a history of poor life decisions and no willingness to accept guidance, and no, that is not acceptable. You don't just throw out a made up name and a person's living situation and assume that other people assume the same things about her that you do. YOU are racist. YOU are classist. You don't gett o lecture anyone anywhere on the sad, sad state of affairs on race. Bad girl. [/quote] I was not going to respond but you call ME racist. Ahahaha. I would welcome your white, black, asian, latino, gay, straight, son or daughter into my home with the utmost respect. I would NOT judge my childs potential mate on SKIN color you ass. Go back to your racist home and spew you crap there. I gave a scenario with a "ghetto" name and cited the "projects". GASP. I could easily give an example of "Crystal" who lives as a stripper in the trailor park and who the hell cares. Thats not racist or classist its an example of a scenario we all know exists in this country on both accounts. Look in the mirror you nasty piece of work because it YOU who is the racist. I dont judge based on a freaking skin color. If you are the angry AA woman god help your children. Hopefully they know what a judgemental witch you are and stay far far away from you as you age and get worse.[/quote] I am not the AA mom and YOU really need to stop. Your comments were racist, and so are some of hers. Stop throwing stones in your glass house already![/quote]
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