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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It does suck. I was not planning on having kids because I knew it would be hard and stressful and not bring that much joy for the sacrifices required. [b]I have two kids despite my ex agreeing to no kids before getting married. [/b]I love my kids, but despite being a parent just as much as I anticipated that I might. It’s like a prison sentence. I’m a woman by the way. I really don’t recommend having kids unless it’s like the only thing you want to do in life. It is absolutely not worth the sacrifice that is required, and it’s much harder now than it was in previous generations. [/quote]

YOU CHOSE THAT. Stop acting like he forced you to get pregnant and have multiple kids. Take some agency over your life. Jeez.[/quote]

I said “no, I do not want to get pregnant” for the first that day; I had 103° fever and have been sick for a week and was off the pill for two days and he knew exactly what he was doing. Feel better? It is called sexual coercion bordering on marital rape. I was trapped geographically and could not leave until I got back to the DC area where my job is and that took eight years of waiting; the second happened only one other time years later that we had sex. He would not use protection. We had not had sex in years. He killed the marriage with forcing me with the first.  Why do you think I got divorced? 🙄[/quote]

I don't need to feel better because my life isn't a dumpster fire.[/quote]

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