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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a general point, I think a woman who refuses to take her husband’s name is trying a little too hard to make a point. But I couldn’t care less about their decision. It has absolutely nothing to do with me. [/quote] And what point is that? That I like my name? That my husband likes his name? That our family success and closeness isn't linked to last names? Perhaps men who refuse to take their wives names are trying a little to hard to remain stuck in the patriarchy. It doesn't sound like you couldn't care less about other people's decisions - I think you might be a little bit threatened by other people's decisions about themselves. You say it has nothing to do with you (which it doesn't) yet you have a theory about all women who don't change their names. Why is that? [/quote]
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