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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The best thing you can do is give him a drama free divorce. It is best for your kids and your wallet. Litigation makes post divorce life harder. Don’t be stupid.

-divorced from an attorney[/quote]

Much like divorce itself, it only takes one person to turn a divorce litigious. And if they do you can’t just lay down and accept it; you have to match like for like for the safety and security of your children and your future. [/quote] Well I am one of many who was dragged into litigation despite several requests to mediate. I asked his best friend to intervene. He also tried. My ex wouldn’t listen. So it annoys the bejesus out of me that posters like you never stop to consider that many of us never wanted to litigate. So sick of the shade. I could have been divorced 15 months ago. He has never even attempted to settle or counter offer any of my 3 attempts to settle.

Of course, one person can make it litigious--but two reasonable people can decide not to make it litigious and do what is best financially and emotionally for everyone. The point is--don't be the one to go to war...you will pay dearly in money and emotionally...and create more difficulty for your kids. Parents can control the outcome of their divorce...if they are reasonable people.[/quote][/quote]

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