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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mine was also ASD. I think at some point he just couldn’t handle family life anymore, so he just left. I was having sex with him whenever he wanted.[/quote]

Super common, I think. A lot of these guys look outwardly successful if they manage to align a special interest or hyperfocus with a lucrative or respected career. Eventually they hit a wall with family life and sometimes will do something deliberate to sabotage it and other times they’ll just disappear.

The best case scenario is they walk away quietly. The worst case scenario is they’re someone who has built some effective but maladaptive coping mechanisms and will try to blame everyone from the wife to the  kids to the dog on their way out. [/quote]

Please stop with the autism wife schtick. Most people with autism are very loyal and would not run away with a younger colleague. [/quote]

Insisting that your inaccurate stereotype is more relevant than people’s actual experience is what keeps people isolated and alone. If someone cannot share their own actual experience in an anonymous forum without being told it’s not real, imagine what it’s like to go through this in real life.

Be grateful that you have no idea it could be real and that it’s not your life. [/quote]

lol interesting that you think you can just make sh*t up about autism and then get mad when I tell you that I have a different experience (and also that the type of conduct described doesn’t sound like autism but a personality disorder or just being a jerk.). [/quote] NP - it's weird that so many posters here have common experiences with these kinds of men and yet you insist that everyone else is wrong about their own experience.[/quote]

1. I have my own experience with adults with autism. 
2. The “autism wives” who post often describe behaviors that have little to do with autism yet they insist are autistic traits. 
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