Reply to Is This the Norm? My Husband Says I’m Wrong

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Is This the Norm? My Husband Says I’m Wrong"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I don't say this lightly, but you should be making plans to divorce him. In the meantime tho, act like everything is fine and keep collecting evidence and saving money so that you and your son have some security...bcuz its clear that he doesnt care about either of you.

It seems like he enjoys hanging out with older kids (you some years ago, and his young adult kids now), he just doesn't wanna be responsible for them. He was probably a jackass to his first wife and a piss poor father to their kids, but now that all the hard work is done and they're all adults...he wants to hang out with them on vacation. He most likely got involved with you to escape the real life that he had with his then family, bcuz he didn't want the responsibility of being a husband and father. This was not a maturity issue for him, this is just who he is. If it weren't, he'd be different with your son, but he's not. This is nuts...and if you go for this BS then you're nuts too.

Now if he went on a vacation with just the older kids, that would be ok...OR if he took the older kids and the 8 year old (bcuz despite the age gap they are siblings) that would be ok too, but the kids and the ex-wife??? And he left you and ur son home and denied you guys any type of vacation this year? Like, huh? Your husband sounds like a predatory, selfish, depraved, irresponsible pedophile to me, so again I say to you...leave this trainwreck of a marriage as soon as your are safely able to do so. Good luck.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics