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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After multiple failed attempts trying to reach my son to clean after himself, cook and do laundry I now use a different approach. He’s studying doing well in his field. He’s ordering his laundry twice a month pick up/drop off from Poplin directly to his college dorm. A cleaning lady comes once a month to make up his unit and place clothing scattered on the floor back in the wardrobe. He only eats outside dorm. My mother-son relationship has improved tremendously after I switched to outsourcing and stopped nagging him. He can also see how much in real terms these services cost and can plan his future earnings around it. I guess if a man is making decent income and has a working wife [b]nobody should be shouldering housekeeping that can be outsourced.[/b] I know families that have house assistant to help navigate through this. [b]Spouses need to find workable solutions and perhaps accept that some socks will always be on the floor…. [/b] My son is smart talented and hard working but on ASD spectrum so he can’t learn these skills [/quote] Not just aspie men assume everything in life can be outsourced. Whilst not even being able to let out half of “everything”. And that someone else will set that up. And that someone else will “find workable solutions” to everything. Whilst they focus on themself and their own needs or work. The magic fairy will be busy indeed! And neglected. [/quote]
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