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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think what happens is sh*t needs to get done, so people ask people who have done the sh*t before successfully. Are they the nicest women you’d want to be friends with? Maybe not always. But they are there, doing things that benefit the community. Do they get a big head, are they rich enough that they have time to spare? Yes, often yes. This is the price of asking the quintessential PTA Mom or Church Lady to run things. [/quote]

DP. There are many women who get things done like you describe but who don't meet the overzealous threshold that OP describes. I have both types in my community.

But yes, at the end of the day, we respect both types  because they get things done. But everyone wishes the overzealous could just calm down. We don't complain too much because we appreciate the help. We have an unspoken policy that you can either step in and do better or you zip it. Or you can always opt out of the activity or event if it is too much for you. But you cannot keep benefiting from someone's hard work and complaining about how they do it. If it was easier to do, you would be doing it.[/quote]

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