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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Are you the same poster that’s getting divorced and doesn’t care that your kids hate your new home? [/quote]

No. I have no idea what you're talking about.

[quote]It seems as though you have reading comprehension and argumentative issues. That’s great that YOU have done caroling without a red dress, but that’s fully irrelevant here. OPs kid was signed up for an activity with a basic requirement that should be fulfilled [/quote]

You don't know this.

[quote] As a parent of a kid with social anxiety, I would not intentionally set them up to be in the wrong outfit.[/quote]

Nor would I. I would find an activity where my child was comfortable and where I was not overburdened during a heavy holiday season.

[quote]PP made the point that the person that takes on the mental load of all of the drudgery of every day life is also the person that takes on any health concerns. The parent that doesn’t know where their kids performance is or what they’re supposed to wear or bring and just shows up (after repeatedly asking the other parent of time and place) is not going to concern themselves with being the point person on researching health providers and ensuring they find the right fit. The non-default parent is going to expect that the default parent figures out how to get a diagnosis and what could possibly be wrong, how to find treatment and a provider, and how insurance reimbursement works. The only thing the non default parent will do is take a child to appointments occasionally, when told when and where and if anything needs to be brought. [/quote]

This sounds like you are projecting your own household problems. We don't know this to be the case with OP.

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