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Ah, and now we're back to "wanting sex is immature." [/quote]

No, that's not what I said.  I do think that bringing up the issue of whether this baby was 100% wanted is immature.  [/quote]

Well, I think the question of who wanted the baby became relevant when someone above seemed to be suggesting that his desire for sex was somehow less legitimate because his wife "sacrificed" for the baby. It wasn't a sacrifice *for* him. So it's not exactly an even trade. If she was the driving force in baby #2, the exchange was more like "I want a baby, and it's going to mean I don't want sex as much, so I also want you to have less sex." [/quote]
So it is acceptable among mature adults to determine who in a couple "wanted" their child more and to use that information in a conversation like this?
Really?[/quote]
The question of who wanted the baby is NEVER relevant.  This is their CHILD.  He exists and OP is his father.  Any look-back to who wanted this child and how much is unproductive, hurtful, and IMMATURE.[/quote]

Agreed.  OP, how do you think your child would feel one day knowing how you have spoken about this situation?  [/quote]

OP here.  What situation?  What exactly would my child get to know in the distant future? [/quote]

I am asking how you think your child would feel if they were capable of hearing you talk this way about them and their mother?  Either hypothetically now or in the future?  You have said that you "gave your wife" a child so she wouldn't resent you.  Not exactly a wonderful expression of fatherly love.  I hope you don't irrevocably fuck up this child - you sound like my own ass of a father, who I hated for a long time and to whom I am now indifferent.  Do you want your child to grow up and feel that way about you?  Would all the sex in the world be worth that?[/quote]

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