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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your post is insulting.

I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.” [/quote]

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman[/quote]
This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit. 
-a woman [/quote]

Squeamish people are bad in bed.[/quote]
I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry. [/quote]

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties[/quote]
Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive. [/quote]

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay![/quote]
Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

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compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back![/quote]
I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction. [/quote]

30 lbs overweight isn't a disorder. And no, sexually rejecting someone you claim to love because they've gained weight isn't "a normal reaction" at all.

You're vain. Just admit it. [/quote]
You sound like you're in deep denial. For my spouse, those 30lbs make him cross over into the obesity category. And medically speaking, it is in fact a disorder.

The fact that physical appearance is a major factor for women and men in terms of sexual desire isn't a crazy idea. It's how humans have worked since time immemorial. [/quote]

In a sense, maybe, but the ideals of beauty have changed, radically, over the years, and politics and fashion have always gone hand-in-hand. Acting like "fat is ugly because biology" is a truth is actually quite backwards. Fat mates had ample access to food, which would indicate good hunting and likely adequate access to resources for potential offspring.

So while, yes, the idea that we're culturally-conditioned to think certain body types are sexy has been a thing since "time immemorial", what that has actually meant over the years isn't the balloon boob, ozempic-thin, Kardashian-assed standard people think of today.

Smarter people recognize this conditioning, and can actually decondition and learn how to expand their sexual palate. Sorry you're not one of them. Sucks to be your spouse.[/quote]. 
You can’t undo 300,000+ years of evolution. Delusional. Your rant about fake people now is irrelevant and you’re really stretching to somehow add to your non argument that health ≠ beauty somehow. [/quote]

Do you think the Kate Moss waif look was sexually attractive in eons past?[/quote]

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