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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These women were not in a community. They were assaulted by someone playing rough sex games (to him). There was no consent. That’s why the article was called there is no safe word. It’s outside the framework of any role play. His language may have been similar to BSDM but that doesn’t make it a legit situation. [/quote] +1 BDSM language + coercive "power over" structure = abuse. Responsible members of the kink community, and any community where power dynamics are at play, have standards designed to prevent this. They're not always followed, but they do exist and they matter to the better members of the community. And then you get creeps like Gaiman, who exploit the vulnerable. [/quote]
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