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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated [/quote]
Triggered AP alert![/quote]

Not an AP. never cheated. I am divorced. I have a “good divorce” but when something like this happens, it causes bad divorces that might otherwise happen. That directly puts kids at risk. Just sex between adults does not do that. Acting like the morality police does involve kids. Bad divorces hurt kids. Cheating alone hurts adults. See the difference? Most affairs, according to research, never get discovered. Bringing that to light when it is not your own marriage is flat out selfish and wrong. I even heard Dr Phil agree about this. [/quote]

You're quoting that nutjob Dr. Phil? No wonder you are so messed up.

No hon. It's best if the cheated on spouse knows. The truth is better. You are really messed up. What is your story because I can't believe you are posting that op is selfish for contacting the other spouse. [/quote]

I’m a parent and I am divorced,
and I see how bad divorces can be if somebody cheats. there was no cheating in my marriage, but I would not have left if it was only cheating. I also would not want to know if there was cheating involved because that to me is not a reason to leave a marriage. There are plenty of other reasons that are worse. My kids have a “good” divorce, but many kids don’t and any adult who gets involved and makes it possible for kids to endure a bad divorce and have lifetime trauma is way worse than someone going outside their marriage for short-term sex. Sex is not the foundation of a marriage. The children and finances are. [/quote]

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