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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The assumption that a divorced parent with untreated disorders or neurodivergence which could endanger a child AUTOMATICALLY gets ANY custody is false.  I have sole custody or my children while my abusive former spouse has none.  It wasn't even that difficult.  Kids and I are thriving like we never could have with former spouse regularly in the picture.   [/quote]

Not what my lawyer consults said. Maryland.

What got you full custody or 80%+ custody in writing, at time of divorce? [/quote]

If they are that messed up pretty good chance they neither hire a lawyer nor show up for hearings if it gets to the stage. If they are really messed up they might just sign anything just to be free.

Child molester visitation what me lawyer called the every other weekend, plus Wed. evening visitation/custody schedule.

Be grateful they your Ex wasn’t that messed up. [/quote]

Molesting children is different than a high income narcissist ASD/ ADHD STBX divorce case where he won’t mediate because his paternal attitude is “he deserves the right to see his kids when he wants.” [/quote]

I had one of those refusal to mediate is easy just move on to litigation at that point they get a lawyer or they don’t. Either they show up or they don’t either way you get a decree. And the child molester visitation is just a euphemism for the most basic level awarded short of sole.

Either way lots of the more disordered if pushed don’t really care that much especially if money isn’t an issue or it’s not made an issue. The basic

ADHD/Narc ex especially so. If they pay minimal support or none at all they tend to not care for that much face time with the kiddos. Even if they fight at first take the money off the table or if the kiddo is a dud they disappear quickly.

The ones willing to pay child support and be a big presence in their kids lives tend to not be the really disordered ones. [/quote]

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