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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Empathy PP is insane or one of these men.

If a wife has to look at her DH with constant empathy equivalent to how a mother sees the struggles of their small child who’s still learning, that’s a fast-track to contempt and divorce.

Who has the strength or cognitive dissonance to be able to tolerate a marriage that is really just being a mother to someone you’re supposed to be intimate with? What man is ok with this?[/quote]
Do you give empathy to people with physical disabilities who move more slowly than you? Does OP expect her DH to have empathy for OP's struggle with anxiety? We are all different and we are all doing our best. Talk to the people in your life as thought they are all trying the best they can... because they are. [/quote]

I give empathy to people with disabilities who recognize they are disabled and compensate for it.  I don’t have empathy for people with disabilities who claim that they aren’t disabled and expect me to pick up the slack and go in on the ruse.  [/quote]

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