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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From another poster on different thread which sums the situation up perfectly:

When your partner cheats on you, you are in an open marriage, without your knowledge or consent. You are potentially exposed to stis and stds, some of which are lifelong, some of which can affect your fertility, some of which can lead to your death.

“People can “dissolve” the marriage without doing those things. It’s called asking for a divorce. It’s called retaining an attorney and filing the divorce paperwork.

The problem is that the cheating partner is not “dissolving” the marriage, they want the stability and benefits of marriage and secret sex at the same time.

Consent is taken away from the partner who is unaware their partner is cheating. They have no ability to make their own decisions about their life. The cheater makes their decisions based on what they want only. “

This is why you tell. [/quote]

10/10. Ex cheated with someone with the incurable std. I’m good btw but it was a nightmare. [/quote]

DP. I'm glad that you're OK, PP. And glad that you posted. There are some people who post on this forum who constantly dismiss STIs as no big deal and nothing to consider in relationship issues but they're so wrong. Not all are curable. And STIs overall are on the rise in the past few years. Betrayed spouses need to know about affairs so they get tested--for their own sakes and for their kids' sakes too (because kids need a healthy parent).[/quote]

HPV leads to cervical, throat and anal cancers. [/quote]

Most of the population is exposed to HPV. Look it up. [b]Cervical only happens when someone does not get regular Pap smears[/b].

One affair partner has much less chance than giving an STD when single before getting married.

Stop fear mongering.

Signed, 
Not a cheater [/quote]

Look, the head-in-the-sand "Don't think about STIs, they don't really matter" poster finaliy found the thread.

The bold above is nonsense. Proofread your posts better, troll. "Cervical only [i]happens when[/i] someone does not get regular Pap smears." No, idiot, cervical cancer is detected by smears; it [i]happens[/i] whether or not a woman gets a smear to detect it. Do you even understand the difference between what you wrote and how cancer "happens"?

The "stop fear mongering" people on DCUM have a strange need to downplay the potential for STIs. I've seen posts like this over the years on this forum. The ignorance is staggering. The simplest Google search will turn up reputable studies about the rise in STIs overall in the US in recent years. But these posters must think they're magically immune and they cling to their "scientific" belief that, eh, it's really very rare, it's less likely in an affair between married people, whatever.[/quote]
 + 1 million

And  I do research involved with STi bacteria and viruses and horrified to find out my spouse was exposing me to them banging fellow married whores off of AM.  Cesspool [/quote]

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