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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The poster so heartily defending these women as "misunderstood" and "small slip ups" is the one forgetting its a TV show lol. No one is lobbing personal insults, it's TV characters who were written to say and do these things. I actually had no issue with Hilary exchanging her glass - that was disgusting. But everything else she's just putting puri inbetween all her issues and indirectly blaming her. Davids horrible behavior is no excuse. I also dont think Margaret deserves that much grace in her situation. Yes, its horrible, but that doesnt mean you can treat people horribly. I'm glad she was honest with Esse and took ownership of her feelings of jealousy that started down the road of Gus's disappearance. [/quote] Margaret was only honest with Essie when she was simultaneously asking for a [b]huge favor[/b]. What is perhaps most annoying about both Hilary and Margaret's behavior is they think they are caring employers but actually they are quite selfish and thoughtless.[/quote] It was a JOB offer, not a request for a “favor.” Y’all have some weird takes.[/quote] True but she only apologized when she wanted something from Essie. [/quote] She actually had nothing to apologize for. Being jealous of your nanny’s connection with your kids is not actually a sin, nor is interviewing a new babysitter because you think the nanny may no longer be a good fit. The fact that she actually apologized TO ESSIE about that is going above and beyond. But there are a bunch of weird PPs acting as if she was somehow obligated to do this earlier. No, just no.[/quote] +1 Finally, someone normal! Margaret did nothing wrong. Should she have asked Essie to throw in a frozen pizza on her day off? No. But does doing so make her an evil, uncaring, horrible person? Nope. She was lovely to Essie throughout this story - as you said, [b]she apologized to her for being jealous and she told her, very authentically, that she LOVED her[/b]. I liked Margaret and felt such incredible empathy for her. [/quote] If Margaret truly had any empathy she'd know Essie DGAF about her apology or being told she loved her. Essie's love language is food. [/quote]
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