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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I finally met a lovely man. I think he runs deficit of about $700 every month. He works his tail off and didn't buy anything outrages. It's temporary and I will gladly help him fix it. I would even help him if we weren't together.[/quote]

Really? You would financially help a single adult man? Mega turn off.[/quote]

Yeah, nope. I’ve established my life independently and am not tying myself to just another dead weight. [/quote]

So what kind of income/wealth do you expect a man to have?[/quote]

Enough disposable income to match mine. Enough free time to match mine. [/quote]

Sure, but what constitutes matching yours?[/quote]

I'm a woman make about 300K a year. My average weekend outing is about $150; I take one large vacation a year at about $20K, couple small trips in the range of $5k. So it's about $15,000 on travel and $3600 on dates that a BF would need to match my expenses on entertainment and travel only. If we move in together, we would be saving on mortgage/rent so not a bad deal for him overall[/quote]

You’re too poor for my tastes.[/quote]

I don’t date men who judge women by their wallet. [/quote]

What about women who judge men by their wallet?[/quote]

Expecting a financial stability at our own (pretty average for your own circle) is not  judging by wallet, if the dating goal is LTR. Partnership  or marriage is a financial union among other things.  You only speak of extremes like always paying everything for other party, being cheap or high maintenance. But having similar lifestyle and hobbies is important in middle age [/quote]

And vice versa. [/quote]

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