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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s weird how angry it seems to make some people when a woman chooses not to have children.  Maybe she wanted to but didn’t find the right guy (or didn’t find the right guy in time)?  Maybe she wanted to but was afraid of burdening her theoretical offspring with heritable mental or physical illnesses?  Maybe she hates kids?  Maybe she lives kids but thinks she’d be a terrible mother?

Women aren’t choosing not to have kids AT YOU.  This thread is bonkers.[/quote]

On any individual level, you are right.  But on a social/generational level, it is all our business. Because people with no family and kids will be more reliant on society and our tax dollars.  Maybe it's because I come from a society with a strong emphasis on family.  The expectation is that family takes care of each other. We don't rely on government help or policy.  That attitude makes us, as a family unit, more resilient to the ups and downs of modern life and economic surprises.  So yeah, when I see people freely choose to shun family (cutting off "toxic" family or not having kids when they can), I think it's selfish.  And then when I hear all the people protesting for more government handouts and welfare, I get pretty annoyed.  We are responsible for our own success and security in this life and family is the number one factor in obtaining that security.

Again, caveat about individual circumstances.  But i think it's clear as a whole people are becoming more selfish and focusing more on themselves. [/quote]

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