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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I’m not quite sure how the bigger offense is [/i]not [i]screwing someone else’s spouse for months (possibly years on end; and possibly also being married yourself), but it’s the spouse that chooses to confront that person[/b].

First- the amount of shock and trauma that ensues when someone finds out something like that is monumental so I’m apt yo give them grace for whatever they need for closure.

But- these OW acting all innocent - ha.  Enough.  And the best is that they will say what a POS the man is and why would the wife want a slimeball YET they have been trying so hard to get him, aka the slimeball,  to leave to marry them !!!  [/quote]

DP. Re: the bold above: Where did anyone say that it is "the bigger offense" to confront the OW? Bigger than the cheating? No one said that, you're projecting that onto the responses here. People are addressing whether or not they feel it's great/fine/dumb/insane to confront an OW. That is the yardstick. They are not comparing that to the cheating, which of course is the worst of all, because it precipitated the desire or need to confront an OW in the first place. Don't conflate two totally different discussions--one of which we're not even having here. [/quote]

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