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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope.

Never works, just makes things worse.

And why? The beef is with the DH not the AP. No AP forces another person to have an affair. That is ridiculous.[/quote]

She isn’t the one who broke your vows. 
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That's such a disordered way of thinking. I'd love to talk to your therapist to see how you go to this place in your life. [/quote]

Why not confront both of them?  I’ve been married 25 years and if I found out my spouse had an AP over a period of time, I’d certainly need to find out who it was and say something.  It’s really nice to think you can enter someone’s marriage with no consequences and the spouse is supposed to welcome you with open arms or turn him over.

Shedding light on a secret situation is empowering and an important part of recovery for many- whether they stay or go.  You are t a victim when you look the big fat albatross directly in the eye and say “I see you”.  It’s not so fun once the secret is out.[/quote]

I’m not an OW, but if a wife confronted me I simply wouldn’t engage. I don’t have to talk to anyone I don’t want to, so I’d just leave.[/quote]

“I’m so sorry” would be an adequate response.  But I guess people with no conscience or empathy don’t feel they need to apologize to people they harm with their part in a situation.[/quote]

Dream on. Why should she apologize to someone who literally wishes her ill? Apologizing won’t change anything. If she stopped it’s all that matters.[/quote]

Either you’re a troll or you actually believe this. Either way, you’re a joke.[/quote]

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