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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of course, a gentleman always pays![/quote]

I hope you also adhere to your other old fashioned gender roles.  Stay home, have kids, make sure dinner is on the table, do all the laundry.  You know, act like it's 1925.[/quote]

I am not the one who posted, but what’s wrong with traditional ways. BTW, I would be happy to pay nice dinners during dates, treat her nicely and don’t expect sex in return, but her cooking some dinners for me would be nice. I wouldn’t expect her to stay at home but it’s her choice whether she wants to work or not. I don’t need her income as I make enough. I would want her to be attractive and well educated regardless whether she wants to advance her career or not. I would want my kids to be smart and healthy like their parents. 
I would be happy to participate in house chores, participate in kids’ activities and respect my wife’s work at home as I believe stable, happy family as important (or more important) than my career success. I am sure how many women in DCUM are on board with this, but this is what I think..[/quote]

I agree, and in fact men who didn't pick up tabs were less caring and attentive to my needs. Like, never held doors, only spoke about themselves at dates, were critical of previous relationships etc. I firmly believe that someone who is frantically calculating how much he'd spent on my coffee and cake at first date will be less involved parent and partner down the road

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The same could said about women. They're the wives who become entitled and want to be constantly spoiled and otherwise just check out on their husbands. They're the ones who insist that the guy must always pay for dinner. That's their tell. ever wonder why the guy didn't call you for a second date? Now you know why.[/quote]

It’s easy to see if she behaves entitled before marring her [/quote]

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