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[quote=Anonymous]Nothing about enjoying the kids or enjoying family time. Just the resentful tone toward the youngest in particular, toward the kids of friends for interacting, etc.

I feel sad for the kids, esp the younger. Dad with his exaggerated "happy" when childfree, so manipulative along with his "sads" when the kids are around, Mom who seems to want a life most of us lived right out of college of being underpaid and married to a cause...

Kids need to be loved and prioritized by at least one parent, they need to feel cherished, not only like a burden. Sad. And if Dad was loving and engaged toward #1 and is "sad" when he is around now, that kid is gonna be just as screwed up as #2.

If you had the means I'd tell you to pu the kids in boarding school OP, at least weekday boarding, then you could have your old lives back most of the time. But then you'd have to prioritize $ and you don't seem to want to do that either.

The years go by so quickly and you CHOSE to have 2 kids. Life has seasons and the parenting one does end. Your kids already pick up on how you and your DH feel about family life.  [/quote]

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