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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: Gm. How can I outsource more cooking? Serious question. Again, I’m happy to eat take out, sandwich, cereal. When I stay late at work, they also cover my dinner. But especially for the baby (for those who asked I like calling him that way - he’s my baby!). The Tiny Organics is pretty healthy but he eats a lot! The portions are so small. [/quote]
OP, I haven't read the entire thread...but what I did read suggests that outsourcing more cooking isn't really the problem. You want to feel cared for, and you don't. You mention your DH not asking if you want something when he buys lunch for himself. That would make me really sad too. My DH skews a little self-centered, but he cooks extra eggs when he makes breakfast, brings me coffee, etc. Little things to remind me that he knows I'm in the house and have needs.

If I were you, I'd probably start looking at this through a relationship lens, not a household division of labor lens. Because that's what the bigger problem seems to be. You don't feel cared for, and you need that.[/quote]

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