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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You keep on telling him that you’re not happy with status quo and he keeps reaching out with nothing substantial to offer. Do you see a pattern? Don’t waste your time like I did, the minute I had somewhat moved on, which took a long time despite no contact,  he came back, said that he loved me, and that he wanted a relationship. I couldn’t do another BS cycle.[/quote]

This. The guy misses the status quo of their situationship.  If OP gets sucked back in it’s going to be more of the demoralizing same. OP has been very clear this wasn’t working for her and she was not happy, but this guy keeps breaking past that boundary to get back to the way it was.  He sounds incredibly selfish.  [/quote]

He keeps reaching out because it’s uncomfortable for him to not have her in his life but he doesn’t miss her enough to commit. OP must be disappointed every time he contacts her for nothing.  The next step for OP is to not respond no matter what, but I have a feeling she broke up so to force him into a relationship, otherwise she wouldn’t answer. You can’t make a man do anything he doesn’t want to.

The next step is to do not respond, block, snd go back to dating other people.[/quote]

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