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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op: update. I replied with a nice final (I thought) message that said:

“I shared my feelings about everything last week when we spoke. It’s a shame we want different things right now, but I totally respect what you told me. I’m not interested in going forward with the status quo.”

He said he appreciated my honesty.

Now, 3 days later, he wrote, “there’s got to be something I can do…”

I truly don't understand. If he cared, wouldn’t he call? And wouldn’t he say what would be different? It feels like he’s just trying hard to get me to agree to maintain our previous “situationship” (which was NOT bf/gf).[/quote]

You are ignoring him…why the hell would he call?!! He is literally asking what he can do and you are icing him out and you expect him to call? I’m a woman and you’re crazy because you just blew up a perfectly decent relationship because you wanted “more” for that means when you were already acting like boyfriend and girlfriends. it’s nuts. You’re very immature for being in your 40s.[/quote]

Another woman here and I agree with this. OP you’ve already invested 4 months. I’m really not sure why you wouldn’t give it another month or 2 to see what happens. [/quote]

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